I’m not even sure why I bothered pointing it out, since it really doesn’t matter. Yeah, this is not healthy. You can read about me here, peruse the archives here and read popular posts here. Diablo It makes sense that you’re a complete and utter wreck after breaking up. I also want to point something out: even if this were a conventional relationship, it is NOT healthy that you ask us to pray “that she wants to get back together again”. So, if and when the LW decides to see someone, if the first one totally sucks, I don’t want him to give up. The first whisper reads, "I'm in love with my sister's girlfriend. The first whisper reads, "I'm in love with my sister's girlfriend. honeybeenicki She wrote me letters and made promises we would never break up and told me that I was her soul-mate. ktfran maybe not?) Banana (I’m kidding, I get it.). Yet another reason why people should STOP having a kid or two with each and every partner. When I'm with her I'm always looking down her top when she bends over and asking her about her sex life. You can replace the letter of the commenter you agree with in the middle — W__S. I love my sister because she is all the things I’m not and she brings out the things I am that she isn’t. February 25, 2014, 2:31 pm, At this point, you just have to sit down and have that long awkward talk with yourself – you know, where you digest these facts: it’s *you*, not them, it *is* personable, and there’s nothing nobody can do about it. Still inappropriate in terms of being involved with a minor (ignoring the sibling stuff), but not like a 30 year old praying on a child. For whatever reason, the two of you became co-dependent, finding a sense of security and acceptance of each other that you mistook for romantic love. And I kept thinking it was a lesbian thing, too. !. Females only, please: I'm in love with my sister! I'm in Love with My Younger Sister. (For the record, I doubt that Janice is my soulmate. Im a 26 years old male. "Love" is a big word, and you might scare your friend off whether they have feelings for you or not. February 25, 2014, 10:37 am. That’s really really unhealthy. Again, thanks for all of the advice! Plus you have weird sibling-bonding chemicals that are interfering with that. Heartbreaking! Nothing can take the place of that love, both of them have gone to be with the Lord. Putting those words down on paper feels like stripping a thousand pound weight from my chest and taking a massive hit of long-awaited fresh air. February 25, 2014, 10:32 am. Intamacy was like none other for both of us. You need to cut off contact. Boku wa Imōto ni Koi o Suru (僕は妹に恋をする, lit. But someday I will! And respect the boundaries your sister is trying desperately to create with you. Since we were young I’ve always been attracted to “Carol.” When she was a teenager she would tell her friends she loved me “differently.” I moved away for about five years and then came home to visit. I need your advice on something I am going through. I don’t think that’s a huge difference at that age. jlyfsh Oh noooooo! Lianne The basic advice is the same whether you’re with your sister or an unrelated person. And I don’t doubt they love each other, but that doesn’t make this OK. (Really, Diablo? READ ALSO: Young wife to 86-year-old KANU bigwig Jackson Kibor, 81, speaks about controversial marriage, READ ALSO: Ruto jets out of the country a day after tearing down Raila. Nookie My first down thumb. I really don’t mind *that* much — but I think it could spark some good discussion. LlamaPajamas All i want to do is cuddle in to her and know everything will be allright. ktfran You need professional help to get yourself to healthy mental state. jlyfsh She said if I was planning to take a shower, I could just jump in with her. While we were showering, I started feeling her. February 25, 2014, 3:16 pm. I have since lost my job, let myself go, and cry constantly. You say moved move away for about 5 years after she was a teenager. Yori and his twin sister Iku used to be very close as children but lately Yori has grown colder toward Iku and is always eager to stay away from her. You can follow me on Facebook here and sign up for my weekly newsletter here. I hope you do too. It doesn’t surprise me that her new lover is also an older man (the “eleven years older” strikes me as a bit defensive–seven years, eleven years, not a huge difference, sorry). February 25, 2014, 9:57 am. Growing up my family kind of abandoned me and things happened to me that cause me nightmares to this day. ! The teenaged sister who loved her brother “differently” (and the “she told her friends” angle always strikes me as sort of wishful thinking) had to have been at most, like, seventeen, and probably younger–a. You’re weird.) I should let you know i'm not interested in sex at all i know is she is willing to listen to me and lets me know she cares. Any way you look at it, he’s much older, and while I’m not automatically saying he’s the villain in this, he had a responsibility and that needs to be considered. Now here I am and I am clueless what to do. We talk about marriage!! If the LW is 50 and the sister is 43, how could the math work out? After we left, we all went to crash with my Sister's friends. I guess? If you thought that the relations between brother and sister have only one I love you, or those annoying moments , then you will not believe this . Cut off contact and get a therapist. I widened my eyes and moved so I was between her legs. Then one day she said she wasn’t happy and we split up. Like someone else said, you might need to shop around a little, but I promise you can find a therapist who won’t judge you and will help you through this. February 25, 2014, 2:15 pm. Let me share my story. Just wait and see! A new story for Naruto and Hinata! I just want to know WHY they don’t like what you said for another perspective. Find a kind and compassionate therapist who can give you the tools you need to confront your past and build a happy future. Worried my partner isn’t fully over an old love. I think you need to consider the extent to which you took advantage of your much younger sister, and the extent to which this may have negatively affected her, before you consider your need, your “love.” In therapy. February 25, 2014, 9:46 am. Okay I’m not going to lie. I’m just too curious I guess. Our parents always travel because of business trips so they're currently not here too. yea, i thought that too… brother/sister or not, its not healthy either way. I'm in love with my sister, she is romantic, man claims. You can also follow along on Facebook and Instagram. And as others have mentioned, the sexual relationship seems to have begun when (at best) the LW was 23-27 and the sister was 16-20. February 25, 2014, 10:18 am. I'm in love with my sister; abbreviated to BokuImo) is a manga series by Kotomi Aoki.Originally serialized in Shōjo Comic, the individual chapters were published in ten tankōbon volumes by Shogakukan from May 2003 until August 2005. February 25, 2014, 12:19 pm. I’m in love with my best friend. She wanted out and she got out. February 25, 2014, 11:37 pm. You can form other friendships and even relationships with other people. February 25, 2014, 11:06 am. Mwahahahahahaha. ktfran It’s funny that yesterday we were all talking about how we don’t really mind the down-thumbs, but then things like this happen and it’s just disappointing to see individuals targeted like this (I mean, who down-thumbed her most recent?). I was seven at the time and she was 8. Vote for our March/April Book Club Selection, Updates: “Not a Secret” Responds (Again). Won't you tell me?" I'll make sure that my sister 8F will get the help that she needs, but now I need to focus on my own baby. I don’t like to be judgey, but you need to consider your actions and their effects. That’s exactly the book I was thinking of when reading this letter. Don’t get caught in the trap of thinking you can never be happy unless she comes back to you. Just kidding! Speak up you down thumbers! and a woman who became sexually involved with her brother and an indeterminate young age and now is with a different older man (though on the surface there’s no issue with a 43-year-old woman and 54-year-old man, for sure). So I just want to note that you do not mention how others felt about the relationship. + Favorite. She called me once crying saying her life was messed up, she moved too quickly, but because she is a hard-headed person, she is sucking it up. Really think about what makes you happy about yourself and start doing those things. The one who won't think like that. And you know what? LW, it’ll take some time but I think you’ll be OK! I really don’t care if you disagree with me, I’m just wondering. The two of them had been flirting all day. There doesn't go a day that I wish she was with me inst…" Everytime I got close to her, I got turned on. the first time you slept with her she was either still a teen or barely out of her teens, and you were about 30. (I’m not weird for taking a naked jacuzzi in my hotel suite with my sister. Is there anyone, besides your sister, who would and/or has talked to you about what’s going on in your life right now? SpaceySteph I'm alone, but death has not taken my sweet memories! 3 years ago read comments by Samuel Karanja - Romantic relationships are meant to be fulfilling but things become weird if it is between two blood relatives - One man claims to be in love with his sister and needs your help. Therapy all around, please. Leave your email to receive our newsletter, Get the news that matters from one of the leading news sites in Kenya, Drop your mail and be the first to get fresh news. That’s the bad news. Despite my best efforts and believe me I know how sick this is and how much I am not honoring my sister but I have fallen in love with him. The feelings you have for your sister are not healthy. I thought it was a woman at first, too, and after the initial comments I had to go back and reread to make sure I hadn’t goofed. February 25, 2014, 10:34 am. Girl meets boy. I had such a kick ass streak going. February 25, 2014, 1:26 pm. February 25, 2014, 12:24 pm. Idk why either, but I totally pictured them as a girl-girl couple until that point. You can be helped. I don't own Naruto Maa-kun does! We cannot seem to let go of each other. So have all five of my brothers. I kind of immediately thought of those while reading this letter. Wait, I’m confused. You need to focus on yourself and your mental and emotional well-being. I didn't have any siblings until they got married when I got a step sister. Like many of you — the ages confused me. Confusing letter all around. I love playing with my sister, it’s a lot of fun. So if I wanted to say “What Emma Said”, I would write it “WES”. Please help me. Hahaha, I love you AP. Addie Pray New Here? February 25, 2014, 12:05 pm. I had two sisters, one older and one younger. But you need a professional to guide you through that process. There is so much to do at this resort (and its sister resort, Pearl, more on that below). So we have a LW who has been attracted to someone who was, at the beginning, MUCH younger (“since we were both young”–HOW young? right?? I actually thought the LW was a woman, though I’m not sure why. We all got completely drunk, and my wife Jean started given my sister boyfriend Bobby a lap dance. And get help. Look in their eyes and drop the bomb with a short statement like, "I'm beginning to like you as more than a friend." meadowphoenix February 25, 2014, 10:42 am, applescruffs Welcome! I would never shame someone about their feelings, but your actions are very suspect in that early liaison. Good luck! A story that will demonstrate that love, true love, can reach even where you do not expect . Iku was confused by Yori's attitude. I had just turned 14 within a month and my sister had just turned 12 within a week. Chapter 1: My Sin. I assumed he moved away for 5 years after college, which would make him 26 and her 19. it’s one thing to start a relationship like this between adults, but if one of them is a minor it’s far different. I don’t understand how your comment could get thumbs down. I actually also read it like the LW was a woman, until I got to the “another man” line. And I’m not saying that to take away from the emotional pain this LW is going through. bagge72 After she finally finished she pulled my pants and boxers down just past my knees. I'm in love with my step sister. Or I could be wrong. The scene with the brother and sister in the hotel room, having sex until they were both too exhausted and sore and emotionally drained in an effort to “cure” their feelings for each other? I know this is the world’s oldest story. February 25, 2014, 3:24 pm, “Please help me. Bittergaymark What was best for me turned out to be him breaking up with me. Here is what you need to do, start thinking about what would make today a good day and tomorrow. One day when our parents were gone, my sister came to me and told me that she was going to take a shower. Agreed. I’m concerned about my sister who is a few years older than me and in her early 60s. I hope you all like this strange story! I just wanted to point this out, because A. a lot of people will unfortunately find this LW’s situation slightly taboo. I also want to add that you might have to “shop around” a bit for a therapist. It is one of the few, lifelong relationships that completes who I am. “My Boyfriend Wants to Spend all His Time with His Parents”. February 25, 2014, 1:04 pm, It just depends on exactly when these incidents happened. I have come up with. Really take some time looking for someone reputable and find someone you feel safe and comfortable with, because this is going to take a lot of time to work though. I think it is a man, since he says his sister is with another man, instead of moved in with a man. Seventeen and ten?) Maybe because I talked about praying? the therapists on that show said that the emotions of finding a long lost person so connected to you for the first time often will manifest itself with romantic feelings. You two have spent the last two decades folded in on each other, and you’re definitely going to need a professional to help you. HELP!! Here’s the thing: you’ve broken up with someone you’ve had feelings for since you were in your 20s. i think him being a teenager when he left makes it even worse. What Wendy Said. February 25, 2014, 12:33 pm. Wow. — Missing Sis. The only reason I’m on my third is that I moved 1800 miles away. For four years we were happy. I second the comments questioning the ages… I couldn’t get past that point so I was surprised the first comment was so far down. READ ALSO: I love dating married men so much - Young lady. February 25, 2014, 12:01 pm. However I will say that often people find solace and fulfillment in what they know or should know is taboo because for some reason or another the conventional is not open to them. Oh, this makes me so sad. If you have a relationship/dating question I can help answer, you can send me your letters at [email protected]. Let her live her life and move out of the unhealthy role she’s maintained with you for so long. * Alternative Title: I'm In Love With My Little Sister / BokuImo * Genre: Drama, Romance * Film Date: January, 2006 * Description: Yori and his twin sister Iku used to be very close as children but lately Yori has grown colder toward Iku and is always eager to stay away from her. My world is destroyed. peachy He didn’t say he left home when she was a teenager. She isn't my sister by any relation she has just been there for me more than anyone else. I couldn't resist. I’m curious. I can’t think straight or even eat right without my stomach being upset. This site is protected by reCAPTCHA and the Google Privacy Policy and Terms of Service apply. You need to take Wendy’s advice, and see a therapist right away, it is not healthy to have such an attachment, and not let yourself love somebody else. The man whose name we will not reveal so as to preserve his dignity claims theirs is a mutual relationship..and it is fulfilling. And you can learn to move out of the fantasy world you’ve created for yourself, where your sister fills the role of mate and partner, and move into a reality where healthy relationships exist. Do you have a nest egg saved up? I'm a guy 38, and my wife and wmy sister Sarah and her boyfriend Bobby went away for a long weekend. February 25, 2014, 10:09 am. GatorGirl The good news is you can break your dependence on your sister and find the kind of love you desire in healthier forms. Who would and/or is concerned? GatorGirl Good luck! You had the higher level of responsibility. That’s exactly what I was thinking and why I feel like the LW needs kindness more than anything right now. I’ve been speculating this all day. Its hard to explain I am sorry. Unfortunately, it might not be the first person or even second person you see. I have feelings for my little sister and am wondering what to do about it. LW, the problem you have is normally, people lean on loved ones and family after a break up and because of this taboo, you cannot tell people what happened or how it affects you. Addie Pray You can move on. DEAR DEIDRE: MY wife has agreed I should be her sister’s sperm donor so she can have the baby she longs for, but she has no idea that I am in love with her sister and have been for years. ETA: No, I guess not, hence “another man” rather than just “a man.”, BecBoo84 Edit- It doesn’t look like they are going to tell us lemon. Your ex isn’t the only person in the world for you; a good therapist will help you move forward until you realize this for yourself. February 25, 2014, 11:15 am. February 25, 2014, 1:40 pm, This makes me very sad. Y’don’t say!). Ignoring the whole half-sister thing, it is not healthy to be this dependent on another person. At first I thought the LW was a woman, but decided I really think it’s a man. When she came into my life, she was immediately there for me and she became my sister. Flowers in the Attic? I am 50 and my half-sister — we share the same dad — is 43. February 25, 2014, 11:01 am. I'm not planning to NEVER have contact with my parents again, but I need some peace and quiet at least until the end of this year. katie His only worry is that the rest of the family will get to know and things may boomerang on the two lovers. I dont really feel conformtable posting a picture of my sister here so I will leave you with the idea. He's a good looking guy- and even though she was my sister- I just felt like he was competition. Just that she said she loved him differently when she was a teenager. February 25, 2014, 12:55 pm. Ive been together with my girlfriend for over 8 years now, and for the past 9 months, I find myself falling in love with my girlfriends younger sister. In this case, I don’t really think it matters all that much how we spin in… Still not good! This letter made me so sad. But I think you might be out with the dates? I’m sure there are people reading this right now who believe — or who at least want to believe — that this letter is fake, but I have strong reason to believe it’s not. lets_be_honest - Romantic relationships are meant to be fulfilling but things become weird if it is between two blood relatives, - One man claims to be in love with his sister and needs your help. Yea, the “another man” comment made me believe the LW is a man. Diablo That was a pretty dark time in my life and my faith really helped me through it. I'm in love with my sister I guess. LW, I think you are downplaying your personal responsibility in this. NOW. I even thought ANOTHER man meant the sister went BACK to men at one point. You’ve had feelings for her for more than half of your life! I’m wondering the same thing. Tagged as: Family, Forbidden love << Previous question Next question >> Question - (15 September 2009) 14 Answers - (Newest, 5 November 2009) A female age 30-35, *ohanna21 writes: Probably I'm gonna get flamed here but I'm just curious if there are people out there like me and my sister. Wendy, I love your first line because I don’t want to believe this is real. funny how when we’re given ambiguous dates/ages we all kind of fill them in differently. When I check off things on my to do list outside of daily chores, I feel good. February 25, 2014, 11:33 am. "I love you too, Dells." Keep your tone upbeat. You need professional help to get through this. If you have the means- get to a therapist. Think of what makes you proud of yourself and focus on those things. February 25, 2014, 10:24 am. February 25, 2014, 9:29 am. Cassie The larger issues need to be explored with a really good professional. Please pray for me — pray that she wants to get back together again”. :) TL;DR: I'm not babysitting my … Please pray for me — pray that she wants to get back together again. I thought the timeline was something like he left home when he was 18 (she was 11), came back at 23, when she was 16. Oh my goodness, this has made me cry. You are unhealthily fixated on your half-sister. A first step, LW, is to come out of the clouds and recognize that, while the relationship may have seemed like utter perfection to you, it wasn’t to her – otherwise she would not have broken up with you and moved on to someone else. February 25, 2014, 9:06 am. It would be interesting to hear! WWS and WCS – break off all ties and find a good therapist. interesting and i read it as he left home when she was a teenager, so he would have been older than 18! Sure, the later age difference isn’t that huge, but he’d been “away from home” for five years–the implication is with minimal contact, right?–so these were, again, the crushy feelings of a teenager no matter how old she actually was. falling in love. Please make your emotional and mental help your number one priority. I’m going to call that the “Grassy Knoll Thumber Theory.”. Two weeks later she’s living with another man 11 years older. February 25, 2014, 10:34 am, LlamaPajamas 2. If you love her, then space is the kindest thing you can give her right now. I’m religious and I will say when I broke up with my ex I actually originally was going to pray to get him back…but then I decided to pray for “what’s best for me”. Not much else happened between us for a while except some maybe-sexy hugging. Not sure why. I'm in love with my sister Romance. Topic of the Day: How Are You Ushering in the New Year? Iku was confused by Yori's attitude. Wendy (not Wendy) February 25, 2014, 10:24 am. Are you on unemployment benefits? It was amazing. Don't use the word "love," even if you're sure you're feeling it. She could have been 18 when he moved away for 5 years, or she could have been a teenager of 13. Then I had to go back and read it again, imagining the LW as a man. Depending on whether it was “about 5 years” and how young a teen she was. bethany February 25, 2014, 10:21 am. Many break-ups are hard, but the fact that you have had feelings for your sister for over 20 years and your life is now falling apart definitely warrants a good look at how you got here and what to do next. February 25, 2014, 4:56 pm. Wondering what other commenters think? I bring out the best in her and she brings out the best in me. I’M back with my girlfriend after six months apart but we’re keeping it a secret from my parents, who wouldn’t be happy. If you have a relationship/dating question I can help answer, you can send me your letters at [email protected] (be sure to read these guidelines first). in a sexual way. I want to 1000th the “find a competent professional” comments and also the need for self-reflection on your part in getting this whole thing going. Do a handful of projects around your home that you have been meaning to do. Find yourself a good psychologist or maybe a clinical social worker (look for an LCSW after the name). Please explain yourselves down-thumbers. Please help. I know it in my heart she feels trapped by this guy. Still doesn’t make sense to me. It’s the same advice we have for everyone here, basically. bagge72 Usually when siblings form an unnatural bond, it comes from family dysfunction, possibly some form of abuse. February 25, 2014, 10:17 am. Well, now I’m in love with her, and while it’s not directly connected, her marriage to my brother is in trouble. I would advise you to cut contact completely. I think the therapist advice is spot-on but I have to feel for this LW because when you are THIS down in the dumps, the basic acts of researching, finding and trying out therapists may seem impossible. She is very romantic beautiful and she spoils me a lot whenever we are together. February 25, 2014, 9:25 am. OK, so why are people thumbing down this too? Kelly L. You held on to a love for your sister, and wouldn’t let your self love somebody else for over 30 years! Oh, it can be daunting. Eventually I had some closure. Such a relationship didn’t arise thanks to any parents of the year — you can count on that. What do i do? That’s why I wanted to put it out there. I agree that the LW needs to think and work on their own reasons for being involved romantically.. And to be honest, I wonder if they actually will take onboard the advice given here. For anyone else I’d say recruit a friend to help with those steps, but I can imagine that given the unusual circumstances of this situation, it’s hard to bring anyone else into the inner circle to help. There are two kinds of friends. I have felt like this since we were teenagers and figured it was just my age but now I'm 23 and she's 21 and I still feel the same. It was the “another man” line that made me think the LW is a man. But now, over a year out of the break up, I would be the first to admit the relationship was unhealthy and I was too willing to give up who I was just to be with him…, GatorGirl Holman Christian Standard Bible and he asked Amnon, "Why are you, the king's son, so miserable every morning? All rights reserved. Oh LW, please please please get yourself to therapy. Bittergaymark Laura Hope 1. Who thinks that his sister becomes the same relationship to his friends as well. Those and also “The Hotel New Hampshire” by John Irving, for something a little more literary. 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