(4) I am skilled at photography. A negative Libra will move in with or marry someone to escape the financial or emotional pit they have dug for themselves. (5) I had a wide circle of friends and social networks. I am a libra and this doesn't describe me. They're not really comfortable with people they don't know, so they are usually pretty shy at first. To pull you in, a libra will start to compliment or encourage you. He's sick but I don't know what to do now because I've reached an adult age and have lived with the nightmare of those horrible experiences in my life. And sometimes I just make fun of people- for instance if they make racist comments and I'm just having a beer on Sunday night, instead of punching them in the face I get this attitude of smiling from ear to ear, looking them straight in the eye and and making them feel like shit. They often hide whatever thoughts they have in their minds because they want the people around them to accept and like them. And I know there's a dark side but I'm not a dark person. They will become silent and seem to be "elsewhere" instead of trying to deal with what's bothering them. Do Libras Hide Their Emotions? Reason why they play games and betray the people closest to them. Kids now tell us that Mom uses people for money, and gets in an uproar out of the blue. We can see all sides to all things.all dimensions.all patterns..all rhythms.all nuances. Saying Yes When They Mean No Libras hate arguing more than any other sign, so they often try to be agreeable in an attempt to avoid any possible conflict with their partner. She has a lot of planets in Leo. She should be recognized for this and given her Propers. Well long story longer I could not invited my best friend and family to my own wedding I'm hurt didn't phase her. If she is pushed into a conversation, then she may try to avoid specific aspects of the conversation. Libras may also do this because they want to be liked and accepted by thoe around them. One is highly generous, but very, very controlling, everything HAS TO go their way. god if they had only known. I can't believe this is how I am? They like being the one that isnt surprised almost always appearing calm and wise, as if they can see the future. Sagittarius' bubbly and outgoing personality is put on hold when they get depressed, causing them to feel lethargic and sometimes even use substances to escape their reality. I am a only child also raised by a Libra mother. By the way, those of you who had Libran parents that treated you like garbage, what's your sign? I honestly think they smell it. Here as a person who is many time being soft spoken and caring(Pisces). Spot on Abbas- "They say Librans hate conflict and that we shy away from them, that's what others see, but what they don't realize is that we're fighting not to open our mouths out of psychologically, emotionally and spiritually dismantling you on the spot". While this may seem like a negative trait, it can actually be quie . Tell me, what can make you cr 1 ultimatum don't talk to my best friend anymore. I have my absolutely awful moments when I break someone's trust, when I hurt someone's feelings, and try to control everything and act like it's not my fault. How on earth can a libra lie so long,bring up drama and then pretend to be a peace maker. And booooyyyyyy. As soon as the topic turns emotional, he'll clam up. What happens when all the fun and excitement of being in a relationship is over??? Every sign is capable of this but ive only seen it with the Scorpio sign. She doesn't have money or a job with 3 kids luckily I still support my kids and back to her parents house. Yeah I do see these traits in myself I just find it happens when I'm being too nice or something and I always seem to attract the wrong people. Im working on how to tell which person I should be friends with and people just taking advantage of me. As you know im a libra and have a pretty hard time saying no so i find people can see that and then after a bit take advantage of that and sometimes just use me and then after a while it all just builds up into sadnesss and anger and its just ahhhh idk how to get rid of it lol oh yeah and i smile and laugh at my own misery alot idk why but i find it funny. Pretty damn true. With Libra, maintaining balance in their life is vital to their emotional wellbeing. TaurusGrounded and steady, this fixed earth sign has more mental and emotional strength than the average sign. Do Libras Hide Their Emotions? We expect people to act gracefully and with consideration of one another.we hate people that act like mindless brutes and we can not stand those that take advantage of others for their own gain. I have been in 3 relationships in my life and the the 3 of them are Libra. All libras say that hate being embarassed; so much that they are willing to betray someone or talk shit about someone else in public to distract everyone's attention from their flaws or faults. and finally: I ADMIT I'm not perfection BUT try hurt my friends? For me, it was to my defend my kids and anytime she went past the line of reason in punishing them, I was right there to invoke the one thing Librans are good at, utilizing and that is our rather sharp tongue. The list of behaviors below will help you realize how to make a Libra woman happy. They become more serious and tense, less tolerant, and are plagued with feelings of worry when thinking about the future. They are highly intuitive and have a good grasp of psychology. They thrive on making things orderly and aesthetically pleasing. Telling an Aquarius Woman How You Feel: How Do You Do It? So good luck living. Ive tried to reach him but he wont answer. Virgo Man Not Texting Back: What Do I Do? Having to explain why you're feeling blue, especially when it feels like it's all piling up on you, can end up making you feel worse. They can be extremely sensitive creatures at times and some things just affect them more than they would other signs. I apologize and we move on. Also i can tell when someone lies so easily buy the way they look at you . Just dont bother try cheering up a Libran when they are in a bad mood. Pisces is the most sensitive sign in the zodiac. Libras are the nicest people of all the signs until you rub us the wrong way. Annelise from copenhagen Denmark on July 06, 2018: Silvia from an Aquarius to another Aquarius give us Capricorns dark side thank you ;), They lie about everything about them self, live in a romantic dreamworld where everybody admires love and wants them Lol lovely. Or when she brought home a kitten who was kept locked in a bedroom so for 6-12 hours ( usually for a long time )so she wouldnt be bothered because the kitten wanted to play. Lolz, I think your Sun might be among those Scorpio stars. It's extremely unfair to call Sylvia Browne a fake psychic. When it comes to our fakeness, I put on a smiley face on every single freaking morning even if dying inside, because it's not fair to people who surround me. Done. Also as soon they breakup with you and have someone else in their life, they wont let you go that fast because they want to track every step of you, and they hate confrontation but love drama. Its that I still struggle loving myself and getttin my wants and needs. She is conniving, manipulative and a backstabber. ), I want to add something. And then there are the decans of each zodiac sign, in which will defer from each other but still be somewhat the same of each other. That Libra/Leo thing was just ugly - self important, secretly power crazed, a seducer, and let's not forget, she's a Cusp of Virgo Libra. I am POSITIVE I am not the only libra who thinks this. I know first hand I have a love:hate for Libra people. Mother, father, uncle whatever..that's ridiculous. Dark-side Librans ignore or hush up reports of pain or unpleasantness and fool themselves that things they don't acknowledge didn't happen. They become unmotivated, hopeless, and start to over-think everything. But my current partner said the same thing as the last guy that I was bipolar, vindictive, and crazy. But talk to damn much. RELATED: What Happens When An Aries Is Hurt? Some of you seem quite bitter and let your insecurities show by bashing Libras. Now he lives in Japan and if I ask him to get me anything from there he would send me by post, or any info about computers, or hints on how to solve computer problems etc. Libra is a sign that exploits the very positive stereotype given to them in many articles, but and a big but. Curse you Libra for messing men's life everywhere you go. Libras are also the kings and queens of compromise, and they like making peace between others. As an aquarius, I usually like some time for peace and space, but she keeps getting in my business and always knows how to aggravate me. I feel I am always there, I mean daily, to boost her up, just to not have her there when I need her or to even respond to a text in a decent amount of time. I spent 2 hours on that phone listening to her sob story and when I put the phone down, she remained in my head, like a mosquito biting my brain, irritating, annoying and. poisonous. However, when she is under emotional stress, it is likely that she will begin to feel uncertain or confused about decisions that she has previously made. I don't even let libras or those with venus or mars in libra close to me. They have a bright side as well, and many good traits. My mother, grandmothers, two former female managers. Yes we are very indecisive and do not need to put our artificial input of wisdom into anyones mind bc if you ask me the same question twice youll get most likely get a different answer each time bc my morals and values change daily bc im an indecisive libra and i also have Borderline Personality Disorder lol. im sorry manipulative, insecure to the point where they compete with their friends(trying to outshine me and gets moody cos it doesnt work), full of lies.. attention seeking. There are many bad parents and abusers, even family murderers with different zodiac signs. Men with a Libra Sun or Moon are masters of the silent treatment and passive aggression. One of the typical tactic of abusers things he did was try to "isolate" me from my friends and family. I am spiritual and often pray for guidance, when I start to second guess decisions or blame myself endlessly for my mistakes. Thank you. So, the best step is to find the bravery to show him what a great partner you could be. I ended up feeling hurt and confused because I saw the signs that said he didnt want to be with me but kept pursuing anyways. what a joke!!! So to say my ability to maintain connection is fucked is putting it mildly. Fang you at this point. That gut feeling is what actual makes us feel human, not the thoughts or beliefs we have, because they can often lie and the heart we have, even if it's synthetic or artificial can't. We work from the shadows, you'd figure that would be a Scorpio thing being ruled by Pluto, but despite being ruled by Venus, our (hermit) like needs tend to make us more powerful in our endeavors when we are in solitude to let our mental powers loose. Because of this, they may be more prone to bottling up their feelings or acting passive-aggressive. I wonder what she is saying behind my back. Even u. Are Libras logical or emotional? Yes I do throw tantrums and become manipulative but only when I am wronged and taken advantage of for a long time. Albeit we have a dark side to us that is one a Libra should NEVER fully embrace (Because once we go darkside..the path of pain and destruction from us will be relentless) we also have a light side that shines brighter than any other in this world. Fast forward my boyfriend (Aries) with (Libra) moon broke up with me today. Scorpio Ascendant, Venus and Mercury in Scorpio conjunct his Pluto in Scorpio which was in his 1st House. When she is overcome by sadness or melancholy, it is certain that her emotions will have a drastic impact on the choices that she makes. Looking back, she loved it when I was down, positively revelled in it!! How To Impress Libra Men? How Can I Help a Depressed Capricorn Man? To start with, yes when we are grumpy we are the worst thing that can happen to humanity. She uses people and shes a know it all. I found out later they talked on the phone after my wife told me. I am a lion. I think Libra's are not all heartless, but they tend to be very practical and don't marinate in their emotions a lot. She talks shit about everyone and try to coaxes you into hating those people that she hates as well. We need to hear someone saying out loud that the stuff is going to be okay, otherwise if we don't hear it, we don't consider it real. 1.) It can be easy to spot this change in a Sagittarius because it is so out of character and such a contrast to the type of person they usually are. Something darker? i am currently in no contact, but this time it is for good. Until after we became roommates did I see time & time again her inability to ever defend me. It's true. Modern men do not hide their emotions. Thank you Sylvia for a well written article. And for those poor souls who's either or both parents/ brothers or sisters/in laws etc were Librans- Ouch, I truly feel sorry. Hi everyone, I am a Libran that you guys are bad-mouthing/talking about. I know two Libras. Reading all of these negative, hateful comments about Libras makes me wonder. People can be quixotic and dynamic. Not all Librans try to make it up to people, but I know a good portion of them out there do. They are the most hypocritical people, will never hear the truth from them. This funk can have lasting effects until a Capricorn really gets back to their old self. Even the most healthiest Libran is prone to snacking on sweets. "Aries isn't good at compromise, so they may break up with Libra over this." Libra men often have a hard time speaking their feelings, and they often bottle up their emotions. Oh! Libras are all about relationships and balance and will go at any lengths to acheive this whether its making people feel sorry for them, misusing others for their own gain, exhibiting superficial emotions to have codependent relationships. she has never ever apologized to me and never will. I love so deeply and I treat my man like he's a god hoping to get that amount of attention in return but it never happens. Beware of libra men. Started playing head games until we finally got head to head and she said no I never did that, we are just friends. Hehe. Libra simply makes up LIES any tells opposite stories to each person so that those two people who may not even know one another, are upset about (false) claims originally made up by the Libra. Their status is important to them before everything, even before their family, they are treacherous and chasing sickly, dressing up as those who are fans so they do not have their own character, for them there is nothing to admire a man who slept with many girls, not considered to be a man, not cool - This is the person they imitate every day and every day until they meet someone greater than him in this field is very shallow, and thus inherently boring dressing up as other people, are subject in any depth. my brother and daughter are both libra and my brother has 3 boys. I know someone with libra sun and moon who has all of the above mentioned as well. Diplomatic, graceful, charming and even witty! When it comes to you, on the other hand, he isn't reluctant to stand up for you. He's been nicer to me than when I was younger, but I can't erase my past memories and my feelings are of a great pain still because I can't forgive him at all even tho he's nice and the most helpful person in my family at the moment. And sometimes I feel terrible about myself because I constantly fight my own feeling of wanting him to rotten in hell, because I feel I shouldn't as he's my brother. I have negative experiences with them, well the females not the males. I'm a libra myself. She told me she loved me and carried on, even said I was her world, her confidante, her saving grace (Calipreston), then when I started thinking OK maybe there is something here she carried on for weeks, then bam. (3) I had the "right" appearance for him to be seen with. Sat there listening in while this self righteous weirdo was really out of line! Libras have a reputation for being able to hide their emotions well. We've all got good and bad sides ofcourse since nobodys perfect but I find Libras so well rounded. With their vast stores of charm, intelligence, frankness, persuasion, and seamless connectivity, they are well-equipped to do so. I have a hate on her beacause im jealous of her she has a lot of friends she has much better fugure than me but her personality is full of garbage this the truth. The silent treatment can be a way Libra adopts to manipulate the other person. Or is it the karma ? Her friends, family members, or partner may begin to feel that she chooses to undermine their relationships. There is a reason why they say Librans make good judges, its because we are able to take every situation or event and tear it down to it's nuts and bolts to see what's really within. Look: This is a very typical attitude for a Libra man. I was married to a Leo before with Virgo tendencies and was totally miserable. However, this may cause her to push people away or make people think that she no . Libras are known to hide their real feelings in order to avoid conflicts with the people around them. It is overly exaggerated. I am no drama queen though. Invite her somewhere she feels comfortable, and ensure that she feels that you are concerned about her well-being. Why, its hard to believe its the same person! They are tooo real people to be fake. Unfortunately, it can be hard for them to keep these emotions in, so those around them might feel backlash for a while. Libra. Please remember the good out ways the bad, because we love very hard. So don't take the (general) layout of the Libra to heart, it's only one sliver of what variations there can be about the Libra. His protectiveness will not be shown in an offensive manner, since that is not how he operates. Chastity, this article is solely about Libra's dark side. My dark side is usually regret which I've been told is the cancer of life. Only then can they have heightened compulsions, turning into an unrecognizable and impulsive being. When this occurs, she may choose to turn her attention elsewhere. They always try to be objective and rational, but they tend to be emotional and sensitive. I have known male and female Libras. Cancer is often emotional, needy, and will even cry after insignificant events, even if they see how silly they were acting after the fact. Not be the only reason Im happy. Obviously, each sign deals with sadness differently, which might be why you feel a deeper connection between you and certain people more than with others; when you get into your lowest lows, these people just get what you're feeling, even without words. I found the article to be amusing, thought-provoking and mostly true of most people, no matter what their sign. Nosy and users of others' lives. Even though they do love their mother, greatly, their elemental make up naturally gravitates towards mine, only on the basis that we understand each other on a level she will never understand, she is a Virgo sun/Cancer moon. We'd take up for a stranger in a minute if their being treated unfairly no matter color, race, sex, or religion if its unfair it brings the rage out in us. I feel that 2015/ 2016 were the worst years of my life. The Libra 2 guy I knew literally created a conflict between a Sagitarrius girl I did NOT know -- she was sending me DM's telling me how much she HATED me and I was thinking, I don't know this girl and she doesn't know me except for seeing photos of me with Mr. Libra on Facebook. She was married to my dad (scorpio) and she would throw tantrums and do everything to get her way. (Mr. Libra perceived that as "popular"). I am able to bind and twist words in my favour, utilising their double meanings. When it's a Libra's partner doing the breaking up, this air sign does everything in their power to make sure the partnership ends on good terms. They become anxious, isolated, and tend to "feel everything" in an attempt to cope with this giant wave of emotion. They often enjoy talking about their feelings and may even cry when feeling sad or hurt. 5.) When a Libra woman finds herself unable to focus on things that bring her pleasure, then she may become increasingly unsatisfied with her life. She made me hate my dad for cheating but she herself cheat several times. Guys you are reading an article about the DARK SIDE of Libra, of course you are going to read a lot of bad things! 2023byTango Publishing Corporation All Rights Reserved. Libras a diplomatic people we dont like to be mistreated or treated unfairly nor like it being done to other people yes I am lazy and charming and very indecisive but yes Libras are very sweet and loyal ppl but if we dnt get it back in return yes Im throwing a fit. Caregivers who mask their own emotions can also reinforce the idea that you should do the same . As a Libra male, i agree with most of this. How to Start a Conversation With an Aquarius Man, How to Have a Healthy Relationship With a Sagittarius Woman. It is important for her strong social and emotional relationships to provide her with support, as she may feel that the people she pushed away have chosen to ignore her. We are intelligent, but we do need a lot of guidance. Positively revelled in it! often bottle up their feelings, and are with. Her inability to ever defend me and impulsive being things.all dimensions.all patterns.. rhythms.all. 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